About Us

About US

n theory we believe we “know it all” in practice we haven’t done it all, at all. Not the right way anyway. 

We initially met in passing through a common friend 5 years ago. It was just a polite group dynamic back then, with little direct exposure to each other. Both of us writing chapters then, in our own stories. Chapters of self discovery, struggle, victory and defeat while forging the road to self love, healing and of course, messing up (big time) along the way. 

 We both hung on to our faith in God and had started giving him the main stage to perform his will in our lives. 

Some life lessons were learned, some needed to be rewinded and repeated over and over again. Highs and lows, twists and turns. Mistakes that have brought sleepless nights and many tears. Why did we make our existence so complicated? 

Those strangers’ paths would cross again or should I say acquaintances? The first time we had a one to one conversation was early last year. We like to say we met for the first time that day, both in the midst of striving to uncover the forces that continued to deliver us one difficult experience after the other in our relationships and had convinced us that being happy meant being unhappy..often!  And that comfort could be found in the unhealthy patterns we had repeated since our early years, that felt so much like home. 

Jess the dreamer, Tom the restless fixer Both considered “crazy” by many. 

We both used to love skydiving without a parachute I guess. Yup! Hitting the ground hurts every time, but the next jump would be better for sure.

We both agreed that our first conversation was the most natural conversation we’d had in years and we were relieved to have found a potential good friend in each other or some sort of a mirror maybe. There was no romantic interest initially as we were both emerging from our most recent challenge, but we enjoyed what seemed to be a therapeutic conversation and wanted to continue, so we did. We would call our first encounters “therapy nights” f*** up I know. No idea who was counseling who, we were both F**** up at that point. Like I said, we thought we knew it all in theory, but we hadn’t really been applying our knowledge all that well, we still  found our therapy nights very helpful though. 

A couple of months went by and we started becoming closer and closer… So after a couple of IPA’s and a heart wrenching conversation, our lips met for the 1st time and our direction radically changed. That was the beginning of it all. And here we are, united as we continue our quest for answers and self discovery. Some have been revealed and some have yet to be, but we are learning together. 

We have become each other’s alchemist, or something like the catapult we needed to break out of our old patterns. We encourage each other to give our best, to do our best, to live our best. 

We have decided to share some valuable lessons we’ve learned and those we are still learning in the hopes this could bring some hope or maybe help someone if they ever find themselves in similar situations. 

We are ready to put ourselves to the service of others as we become better versions of who we are. So here we go…

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Love, wisdom, joy, harmony and abundance, 

Jess and Tom

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